Thank all of you for your comments on my last post....You are such a caring group of friends. I guess I want to add a comment to further explain what I was trying to say....Relationships grow and change and sometimes you can find yourself wanting to change certain aspects of a relationship but find it very hard to step out of the comfort zone that has been established. Many different elements can play into the hesitation such as concerned about hurting someone else, concern the relationship will not be as close, etc. Maybe using the word fear was a bad choice because I know there is no fear in the Lord. I am seeking His guidance on this issue but change and leaving that comfort zone is still hard. I am confident He will give me the courage I need as I really feel this whole situation is of Him and that He is giving me a boost to step up and step out of the comfort way of relating that has characterized the past...I might add that this is a very long and old relationship that means a great deal to me....

This is the little country church where my sweet fisherman attended as a child until we were married and moved away. His great grandfather gave the land and his family have been active members for four generations. Of course this is not the original church. They replaced the old one many years ago.
Hugs and blessings,
Nancy